October 3, 2020

Happy birthday kiddos

 Mau and Golu happy birthday and God bless.... You turn 1 year today....am writing a long letter to u... This letter has all that u mean to us and some learnings from life... 


Both of you have bought a lot of happiness and joy in our life... Seeing you both so joyful and happy makes me realise how blessed we are.... Both of you have superb grasping power and very active.... Both of you are very different in your activities and behaviour.... Nysa in mommy's child and Nyra mine.... Your dadi and nana and nani love you a lot.... Your dada also would be blessing both of you from heaven.... Missing him a lot today.... Chanda, nikhil, khushi, kavita, rakesh and aria are ur family... Never let go of them... No matter what.... 


Nysa has two front teeth now... She was the 1st one to crawl and is very fast and active... She copies me and nani doing yoga... She is attracted to mobile screen and we try to keep her away from it.... She does not like sweets much and is very fussy while eating like her dad.... She used to dance earlier but has now become shy.... Nyra being the stronger one also hits Nysa but Nysa being more agile runs away.... Nysa is also more giving of the two and has started sharing stuff.... She is too attached to her mom and troubles her a lot... She yells and shrieks when she sees her.... :)... She is right handed.... 


Nyra is the more quieter of the two... She is left handed and more attached to me and keeps on saying papa papa... She likes to go down more than Nysa... She has a habit of throwing stuff from the sofa and behind the bed... She has thrown everything from diapers to towels... Etc... Nyra has started standing up before Nysa and she also started sitting on her own before... She weighs more than Nysa and is more strong... Also she is less afraid then Nysa... Nysa today got afraid of Baloons.... Nyra did not.... She likes formula milk unlike Nysa... Also she eats better than Nysa and is not so fussy... But once she sees food she goes crazy.... Both of you like biscuits like Marie, Parle G.... She has more of a sweet tooth than Nysa... Also her voice and cry is louder than Nysa.... 


Nyra plz protect ur sister from others being the stronger one... Both of you plz stay together... Let go of small things in life... As being together is important.... United no one can stop both of u... But if ur seperate then things will be easier for others.... There is a reason God sent u together.... 


Some thoughts for of u kiddos...... My learnings from life... :) 


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Plz be happy and joyful daily... External circumstances are not in ur control but internal circumstances are within ur control... 


Stay true to ur self... Don't lie to urself.... Tats the worst thing you can do... 


Be ethical no matter what.... In the long term tats the only thing tat works... 


You will fall down and u will feel that it can't get worse than this but that is when the best things in life happen to u.... So work hard and look at the silver lining.... 


Take care of ur health.... Money and fame come and go with time but what stays with u is ur health.... 


Family comes first... Don't ignore family for anything in life... Work, money, happiness, sadness is all temporary but what stays with u is family.... 


Learn to give.. Both of u are blessed... Try to share ur blessings with others in need... 


Learn to respect people who work below u like subordinates, help, etc... How u treat people below u truly shows ur character.... 


Money is a means to an end and not an end in itself... Don't let money determine ur worth and happiness.... 


Be spiritual... Meditate and pray... Cuz tats the only thing tat will keep u sane.... 


Have passion in all u do...do whatever u do with 100% effort and love or else don't do it... 


Keep ur ego aside... Cuz once ego comes in a relationship then things fall apart...learn to let go.... 


Learn to compartmentalise... Office and work stays there and does not get home.... 


Spend time in developing ur hobbies... Cuz if ur hobby becomes ur job... There is nothing like it.... 


Learn daily... Don't stop... Cuz tats the only thing tat will help... And when u learn... Give ur 100% to ur guru... Never ever think that ur guru knows nothing.. And learn from everyone... I learn from u guys.... 


Fall in love.... Its important.... But remember falling in love is easy but staying in love is tat much more difficult.... 


Have faith in God.... He has a bigger plan... 


Learn to use ur words correctly.... Wounds heal but not harsh words... 


Do ur karma.... Leave rest to God.... 


Don't judge people.... Treat them as they are.... 


Listen to elders and wise... There is a reason they are elder and wise.... 


There is no work that is small or big... Ur ego is small or big... Nothing u do ever goes waste... Even sweeping the floor... 


Commit mistakes but do learn from them.... Failure is a bigger teacher than success... 


Make friends... But remember ur the average of 5 people u spend most of the time with... So be choosy.... 


Dont blame others for ur failures... The buck stops with u... 


Be selfish... If ur not happy... People around u cannot be happy.... 


Don't wash ur dirty linen in public... What happens in family... Stays within the family


Be optimistic.... People will pull down from ur goal but very few will push u to it... Remember ur goal and not the one who pull u down.... 


And lastly... There is only one life... Don't take it for granted.... Ur here for a reason... Find the reason...

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